Having fun with Grandma!

It has been a couple of weeks now since my husbands parents moved in with us. Yes, there have been adjustments for all but the blessings are sweet. We have also made some changes to the house to make it more easily accessible and comfortable for them. We made our office into their bedroom. So, the office furniture was moved into storage and or the living room. The piano came into the living room from the dining room and the table went into the storage room downstairs. We made the dining room into their family room. It is right off the kitchen and it puts Jackie right in the middle of the action. For the most part I think she enjoys that except for when the area fills up with noisy bodies.

We also cleared out the play room that I had for my nephews and nieces. We put the toys in storage and I have my file cabinet down there, where I can still access it. I cleared out my desk and put it in there for Milo to use for himself. It is the same desk that he built for Kenneth when he was a boy. He has his computer there and his trainer and his bike. He goes down there at least once a day to ride his bike. The only bad part of it is the stairs for him. His hip and knees have been bothering him but he still goes up and down.

We opened up the wall from the bathroom to their bedroom. It makes it so several of us can be in that same space at the same time. It has proven to be convenient. We got a curtain up there this week and added towel racks and several hand rods for Jackie to hold onto while she is in there. We were lucky to have a small sample of carpet left from a couple of years ago from when the carpet went in the upstairs. That carpet is no longer available. A carpet guy came and tore off the backing and pieced it together and put it in where the wall once was and it looks real good. He was amazing.

In the front we had a wheelchair ramp built. It was finished yesterday. Ken took Jackie out for her maiden voyage. Before, it took three of us to carry her down the stairs in the wheelchair, so this is a true blessing. It will make it easier to get her in and our of the house and give us the opportunity to get her out more often. I have been taking her out on the back deck each day to get her warmed up by the sun. She enjoys sitting out there. With the heat as of late, 5 minutes is the maximum. Who would have thought that October 1st in Salt Lake could get up to 90 degrees?

I am grateful for the opportunity that we have to have there here in our home. Transitions have been hard for everyone but we are settling into a routine and feel like it is working. I have been blessed with extra strength and health. I myself have been amazed at the strength of my back. I have had many problems for most of my life with my back but I am strong and able to do more with Jackie than Milo can. I usually am the one to get her out of bed in the morning and to the bathroom. I get her in the wheelchair and to the small table for breakfast. If Spencer is still here, he helps get her on the couch, if not Milo is on his own. When I get home from work, Milo and I get her to the bathroom and I take her outside to enjoy the warmth and fresh air. We visit and I take her around the house with me for a change of scenery. Once Ken gets home in the evening, he finishes up the evening and puts her to bed every night. The Lord has blessed us and we are thankful for the peace and joy that having them here has brought. Jackie is grateful to not be in the nursing home. Milo is still adjusting and shows signs of him settling in a little more each day.

One down...four to go!

On Tuesday August 10, 2010 we had our first wedding. Nate (also know as Jack, his middle name) married McKell Allen. Today was the first day since the wedding day that I actually got up and ready and out running errands. The day after the wedding I never even bothered getting dressed because I spent so much time in bed.

The day before was windy and I was worried about the weather because their reception was in McKell’s grandma Connie’s backyard. The day of the wedding everything settled down and the weather was great. Nate and McKell were sealed in the Salt Lake Temple. I dream of one day being in the temple with all my children with me. I hope for that day! McKell received her endowment on Saturday afternoon in the Logan Temple.

The reception was in Brigham City. We had guests at the reception before we got there, or the bride and groom got there. Nate and McKell got there about the same time as we did. Since the sealing was at 3:00 it made it hard to get to Brigham City on time. The line moved well and it was fun to see friends, family and neighbors. Not too many neighbors made the trip. I counted 12 total. I knew it would be a small number because of the distance.

Nate and McKell are still on their honeymoon. They flew to San Diego!

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Vacation - July 2010

We spent this past week on vacation. When I say we, I mean myself, Ken, Sarah and Avery. This is the smallest crew we have taken on vacation in 20 years! Spencer works a full time job where he didn’t feel like he should ask for any more time off. He works at Mill Hollow as a cabin counselor. He usually works Monday through Friday. He eats and sleeps there and comes home for the weekends. It has been a good experience for him. I think it will help him to be more self reliant, which is good before a mission. The kids that come up for camp have all been elementary students. It is run by the Granite School Dist. Some of the things that he has had to learn to deal with are boys wetting the bed, throwing up, boys with home sickness, etc. I am glad that he is getting this opportunity. He is also starting to save money which is a good thing for him. I think he is finally making enough money that he doesn’t feel like he needs to spend it all to enjoy life. I think as parents that we have worked quite hard at teaching our children how to manage money but when it comes right down to it, it is up to them. I am happy to see his savings account grow!

We left last Monday and drove through to Cedar City. The kids swam with Ken and ate dinner and went to bed. We got off early and drove to Zion’s National Park. Our goal for the day was to hike the Narrows. We caught the shuttle and didn’t make any extra stops. heading for the last stop of the shuttle. The kids kept asking me if I planned to hike the Narrows I answered yes! Over the past several years, I have not been able to do a lot of things. My body just kept falling, and falling apart to the point where I wasn’t doing any of the extra things, just the necessary things.

When we started walking in the river I realized that this was going to be a challenge. I think that I did pretty good for someone that has not done much strenuous activity for four years. Sarah stayed by my side and stopped me from falling several times. I stayed with them for about an hour up the river. We had talked about where we would meet if we got separated. I told them I was heading back. Sarah and Avery both told me they were proud of me and glad that I came with them. They went on for another hour and a half. I got myself back down the river and the trail, to the shuttle and back to the Lodge. I was exhausted! I got something to eat at the Lodge and then found a couch and fell asleep for an hour and a half. I went outside and took off my socks and shoes to dry them out. The family returned about half an hour later. I was glad because dark cloud were beginning to form. I notice on the news yesterday that they said that there was a flash flood in the narrows. I am glad we all made it back safely!

We found a place to pick up a pizza and ate in the van as we traveled on to St. George. We stopped by to visit our niece Brooke, her husband Steve and their son Peyton. This is the first time we have been to their home since they moved. It is a beautiful home and great company. Peyton warmed up to us and he is so sweet! We drove into St. George and stayed the night.

We were all tired and woke up just a half an hour before the in hotel breakfast ended. We were rushing to get out before check out time. We drove on to Las Vegas. We had booked a room there for three days and two nights for $189.00. It was a really nice place. It did not have a Casino and there was no smoking allowed except in certain areas outside. It was nice! It was a two bedroom condo. It had two bathrooms, three t.v.’s, a full kitchen with dishes and accessories, and a kitchenette in the kids side, a jetted tub, a queen size bed, a king size bed and a pull out couch and a washer and dryer combo. We felt like we had plenty of room to get around.

Our time there seemed to fly by. We had tickets for Thursday night to see the Blue Man Group. That was a lot of fun! It was nice to be in Vegas and go to see a show that was good clean fun! There were plenty of times that all of the dark and bad things about Vegas just slap you in the face. The show was not one of those times.

When we drove out Friday, we were all ready to be home. We spent 8 hours on the road. We got home late in the evening but it just felt so good to be home. It is nice to get away but it is so good to be home. Spencer got home about two hours before us so it all worked out just right. I had made sure the house was cleaned before we left and when we got home we unloaded the van and I started doing wash. It was nice to go to bed with everything washed, cleaned and put away. In the morning we just had to put a few things away that we left out to dry. I am so lucky to have a husband and children that help Ken and I to work as a team. I cannot imagine if I had to do all the work by myself. We stopped a few blocks from home and filled up the gas tank and cleaned the van. I will probably vacuum it tomorrow but I do not feel overwhelmed. Yeah!

I talked with Nate a hour or so ago. He forgot we were out of town and came by wondering where we were. He and McKell got settled downstairs and started a movie thinking we would be home soon. Instead they were surprised as was Candice when she came down the stairs. They surprised each other. I had Candice come do some painting while we were gone. I painted two coats on the walls in Avery’s room and Candice came to fow it. Is that how you spell that? She also did a finish coat on my red wall in my dining room. They both look so good. The only problem now is that Avery’s carpet does not match the walls. I ordered enough carpet to do his room and the hallway. Slowly I hope to have matching carpet in the whole house. A couple of years ago we did the upstairs and the stairs. They did not have the same carpet this time. I think the carpet I picked will look good. Now I just hope that I can put down new carpet in the rest of the basement before this carpet is no longer available.

We have lived in this house now for 12 years. Every time we do something new I feel like we are making it our home. Once all the sea foam carpet is gone I think I will feel like it is our home. Sometimes I envy people who move into a house and have it painted, carpeted, all new furnishings, etc. etc. etc. Then I remember how much money they must of had to spend to do it and I remember how grateful I am that Ken is so good at budgeting money and keeping us comfortable financially even in these difficult financial times.

We have Nate’s wedding coming up in 2 weeks. When it is a 7 week engagement, the time flies by rapidly. Wish us luck!

Fabulous Five: There is beauty all around..........

Fabulous Five: There is beauty all around..........

Nate and McKell are getting married!

Nate and McKell are getting married on August 10th in the Salt Lake Temple! Nate is an easy going guy and doesn’t want a lot of attention. We will see how much McKell can talk him into. He wants it to be as low key as possible. I told him that girls dream of their wedding for a long time and he needs to make sure that he makes this a once in a lifetime day for McKell. Time will tell in no time at all. LOL

Baseball - 2nd place!!!

These pictures just make me smile! Last night we finished a game that was started last Friday. We lost by three points, which was sad but the team took second place in the tournament! The boys were thrilled! No one expected them to get far in the tournament but maybe that is what made it so fun to watch! The team that took first place was seeded 5th and our team was seeded 7th. We only won two games in the season but they made up for it in the tournament! The three team captains high 5’ed each player as they received their trophy. Avery was one of the three.








This picture is of the three team captains. Avery is on the right, Preston Hymas, in the middle and Ethan Richards on the left.